Well so far the adjustment has been difficult to say the least.  Obviously it doesn’t help that my wife is so limited in what she can do but the real struggle is the 3 year old.  She seems to be having a really tough time adjusting.  It’s really early on so I am going to attempt to get back to a place of normality for her to help her to adjust.   Outside of that I’m not really sure what to do.  Tonight was a huge struggle to get her to go to the bathroom.  Once she calmed down it took about 2 seconds for her to go but the ridiculous struggle that preceded it was unmatched.   We’ll see how tomorrow goes as tomorrow is church.  Shouldn’t add to the regularity at all because we will be going without mommy so there will still be some strangeness to it but that’s our new life!